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Old 04-16-2013, 05:12 PM   #1
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Default Just how to create zeal/interest/ love for deen among women?
Assalamu alaikum Broadly speaking, there's more understanding of deen and worry for acting upon it one of the men than women.But there are girls also, who are definitely better than some men in facets of deen. But we've to be reasonable. Greater opportunities are got by men to stay in the organization of pious, pay attention to recommends and messages of good ulama, to visit in the road of Allah with a jamat worried with akhira. Even when some of the men they don't connect themselves with deen, some siblings (dawat tableegh) visit them and advise them... and slowly, slowly produce aleast some consciousness or passion for deen. But unfortuitously, for the ladies the possibilities are extremely few (IMHO). They're limited inside their homes ( that will be really suggested keeping because the fitnah existing outdoors). Opportunity wasn't got by them to stay in the organization of pious ladies ( where are pious women? ). They don't venture out, so they cant pay attention to messages of ulama... And mastoorat jamat is just a bit hard because they need certainly to keep their children behind... The only real organization they get is females who gossip and backbite about others... Also, some create a dislike for deen once they feel their 'spiritual' husbands/brothers( menfolk of the home) aren't really honest. Once the aklaaq of men isn't great that feeling of insincerity occurs. They shouldnt be taking a look at the problems of the others but they believe the folks whom they consider as role models aren't very good, then they distance themselves from deen. Then they get affected by the surroundings and be worried about insufficient development in facets of wealth/prestige( merely saying: dunya )... They obtain a feeling that the shortage of development and deelpment is due to deen... and start sensation deen as a hindrance... Some dont keep deen entirely as they've some knowledge of deen but they're not satisified inside. They only conduct the motions so as pacify their mind. Ok, enough of the ramblings.. I was asked by a friend of mine some recommend concerning the growth of problem for deen aming his home. I wasn't in a position to offer much help... I'm asking people to you to ensure that is. The women in a town environment or atleast in area are luckier than women in villages.., while answering hold in mind. Coz in towns and city some thing happens....while in towns nothing does happen...( I am talking about by happpenings.....religious events....visits by students..etc). Once in some time a jamat can come to the villages..... and mastoorat( girls) jamats come once in decades... In, the city/town mahul, atleast girls can visit regular taaleems, attend some bayans and they can retain in contact with girls who share the problem for deen and have an enthusiasm for deen..... Occasionally there are also madrassas for women... Although there isnt greatly fitnah.. however the situation in towns is different....Even. there isnt much interest to do something upon deen... In citiy atmosphere... There's an excessive amount of fitnah and at the same time frame you've individuals with frustrating enthusiasm for operating upon deen.. I want to know the activities of siblings in developing their passion and enthusiasm for deen and the recommends of pious people with regards to developing problem for deen among the girls of the household.. Note:Some of the claims are simply my perspective. I dont have much understanding. I've mentioned what I believe is true perhaps not what's turned out to be true. Which means you will need to excuse my faults.
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