[radikal]

Salamalaikum

I went to wedding of my cousin today Mashalla most religious wedding Nika in masjid and man woman full separated. No boy allow in ladies side and even bridegroom coming to meeting bride and only Mahram ladies. No mahram ladies ask wear hijab in advance of bridegroom comign. So Alhamdulilla still hope for Hyderabad Muslim.

I have question. In invitation for wedding my cousin, no mention girl name. Only bride father name write. Now in Hyderabad many ppl doing this. In shariyat there is pardah of name of girl also?

[gortusbig]

Hyderabad on right path

[pesty4077]

Hydgirl are you trying to be "Yoda" in Star Wars? Your writing style is like how he speaks! E.g.
"Only bride father name write"

[Klavalala]

MashaAllah it shows ghayrah

[wbondarmunw]

Alhamdullillah,

This is the method of the Quran and the scholars have said that it is better for a female to keep her name hidden as well, unless there is strict need.

In the Quran, no name of a female is mentioned. They are mentioned in relation to their husbands and so on, "imra'atu firaun, imra'atu lut" etc., be it for pious ladies, or impious ladies. Only Hadhrat Maryam's name is mentioned, out of necessity. The ulama have mentioned that it is to remind the people that Eesa (AS) is Hadhrat Maryam's son. If Allah wanted, He Ta'ala would have mentioned the names of the ladies as well, it would have made no difference to Allah Ta'ala. But this is so that the believers take heed and lesson from it.

[Hammaduersnes]

Mashaa Allah.

When my cousin sister married, her invitation card just read bint-e-Ilyas, her name wasn't mentioned. Her dad is involved with Tableeghi jamaat so am guessing it is a deeni thing to do.

[Misiotoagodia]

Husnaa sister Who is yoda I dont know.

I like reply no lady name mention in quran but we taking names of wife and daughter of Rasulalla and also other ppl no? also even hadees not mention name of ladies? i want to ask if there is hadees for not taking ladies names knowledge ppl pls reply Jazakalla

[eladiopsislab]

What with reading bride name out in masjid when nikah - They read Girl name and Girl father name and father of Girl's father name?
What say you?

Hyderabad on right path

[Si8jy8HN]

sigh & facepalm for this thread ......

[dexterljohnthefinanceguy]

http://www.google.co.uk/search?tbm=i...iw=320&bih=356

Hydgirl: Yoda!

[Skete]

Husnaa sister Who is yoda I dont know.

I like reply no lady name mention in quran but we taking names of wife and daughter of Rasulalla and also other ppl no? also even hadees not mention name of ladies? i want to ask if there is hadees for not taking ladies names knowledge ppl pls reply Jazakalla

Yes, that's why it is not haram to mention her name, rather it is closer to taqwa not to mention a female's name unnecessarily. So if a female's name is mentioned, there is no blame on it.

(Sorry, I can't remember the exact book where I had read this).

[HaroTaure]

Isn't the purpose (and importance) of nikah in public so that the public know who the two individuals are that are getting married and therefore they won't look at them with suspicion when they see them together?

[nasdfrdg]

^ If the lady is such that she is willing to hide her name then it is highly probably that she wont be easily recognized in public (veil). As for the man, people will know that he is married to the daughter of so and so.

[jisee]

That's what the Nikah witnesses are for (two male or one male and two female adult, sane Muslim witnesses).

Hmmm... I hope this thread doesn't derail into something else.

We should never condemn those who want to do what is closer to modesty and taqwa, as long as they are fulfilling the Shariah requirements. As strange as it may seem to us, there are alhamdullillah, people on the face of this planet who don't only worry about the minimum requirements of Shariah, but want to lead a life that is closest to taqwa, to gain the pleasure of Allah, even if it may seem farfetched, or unnecessary or difficult to most of us.


May Allah make them steadfast on their path of taqwa and allow us to take lessons from them. Ameen.

[GoveMoony]

it just came into my little brain, if the father has 2 daughters, then won't it create problem. As people won't come to know which daughter got married. And in future too this will create problems, isnt it??

[eliniaguilefp7m]

Masha'Allah zabardast hai. Very good. That is how it should be.

[Taunteefrurge]

it just came into my little brain, if the father has 2 daughters, then won't it create problem. As people won't come to know which daughter got married. And in future too this will create problems, isnt it??

i was wondering the same.. isnt Nikah an open declaration that one is getting married to fulan bint fulan.. so that people do not suspect when they see them togather..

what do the Muftiyan karam say about this..

[eFDMBwKH]

Hydgirl are you trying to be "Yoda" in Star Wars? Your writing style is like how he speaks! E.g.
"Only bride father name write"

Relax, the person is from outside of USA and doesnt speak Valley Girl English like us, it doesnt make them an alien.