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Old 09-04-2012, 03:56 AM   #1
hoarrimilsora

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Default For brothers only - getting married in west vs back home?
Sure you can get good and bad in all places, but in general what are pros and cons of each?
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Old 09-04-2012, 03:56 AM   #2
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Sure you can get good and bad in all places, but in general what are pros and cons of each?
Where's "home" for you?

Depends completely on your circle of friends and contacts. You can find women with traditional ideas of life and relationships in the west, and you can find women with a more westernized idea of life and relationships back "home". You need to figure out what values are important to you in a spouse, and go about looking for a woman who has those values. Doesn't matter if it's here or there.
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Old 09-04-2012, 03:56 AM   #3
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Pros and cons will vary from individual to individual.

What matters is finding a decent spouse on the Deen, so make dua that ALLAH give you a good pious spouse, where the spouse is from doesn't really matter as long as Imaan is in place. May Allah make it easy for you.
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Old 09-04-2012, 03:56 AM   #4
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These western sisters often tend to be feminists though without realising it. The concept of obeying their husbands would make them laugh. They dont want to cook or clean.

Back home = India/Pakistan/Bangladesh.
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Old 09-04-2012, 03:56 AM   #5
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Depends completely on your circle of friends and contacts. You can find women with traditional ideas of life and relationships in the west, and you can find women with a more westernized idea of life and relationships back "home". You need to figure out what values are important to you in a spouse, and go about looking for a woman who has those values. Doesn't matter if it's here or there.
^^ This pretty much sums it up.

These western sisters often tend to be feminists though without realising it. The concept of obeying their husbands would make them laugh. They dont want to cook or clean.
Sorry brother but this is completely senseless and judgmental. Again it's not a matter of whether a sister (or brother) is from a certain part of the world. See brother vagabond's quoted post above.



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