[u2ZQGC6b]

Hey all
I`m in a complicated (well to me it is) predicament.
There`s this girl i saw who i was attracted from the heart like i felt an immediate connection to her, just by looking at her.I wasn`t gonna let her in my heart cause i was scared of it being broken.
I went to church and this medium,who i was talking outside, was talking to my dad, and was telling me stuff only he would know,anyways she said he said, that there`s this girl i like and i should go for her.So my heart was open again, and i couldn`t stop thinking bout her, she made me ill from frustration and anger of wanting her so bad, shes kept me up on loads of occcasions till 6am somedays.So this past week, i plucked up the courage and straight up asked her if she`d like to go on a date, and she said "i would love to but i have a boyfriend".
Now this is where my dilema is, i love her and i need her, and can`t stop loving her i`m feeling a but deluded (i feel as though there`s a cord attached between us).What i don`t understand is why would my dad say go for her, if he knew she had a boyfriend and my heart wass gonna be broken and me fall in a bout of depression again? My dad loved me not hated me lol.Am i being dillirious or is she gonna like break up with her boyfriend and that`s why he said go for her?

I honestly don`t know what to do, i`m finding it really hard to live without her, but don`t wanna get my head kicked in, for my mums sake lol.
I feel as though she is my soulmate and all the signs were there she was, and were gonna be together.

Any help is appreciated.

Thanks a million in advance.

Carl

P.S probably won`t respond till saturday, as i haven`t got a pc or internet access at home, but please do post i reply on saturday.

[mpxricyNimb]

Carl,

Relax, look at it this way if you are meant to be with this person you will be. Why not ask her again but this time as a friend. You need to get to know her, until you do that it's a fantasy you're dreaming about not the person.

Ask as a friend this way once you've spent time with her you'll both know if the attraction is real. If it is then it will work out.

Timing in life is sometimes not the timing we are looking for.

[jamemeveRhype]

Dude..........as frustrating as it is having to wait, or to finally realise that you are the ideal couple, wait you must. This is a two person thing, and it sure will knock you for 6 if she does not feel the same way.
My dearest knew I was the one, yet it took me a couple of years to finally acknowledge my heart and accept the guidance of the Universe. She is the most beautiful thing, and everything that happens in our lives fills us with laughter and love.

Offer a prayer to the Great Beyond......all I have asked has been given to me, and the love I have for this woman is only matched by my gratitude to the Divine, for answering my prayers.

If it is to be, so it shall.

Blessings

Papa Bear

[lmHVYs8e]

Hey Carl. We have some new rules here.

Since you've been gone we don't allow people to come back after months of being gone and then immediately ask for a reading. We don't want SB to be your 911. We want it to be a part of your life.

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