[Phlkxkbh]

hey guys

This is really random lol, but just thought id post it. Ive always been abit sceptical about 'ask the universe and you shall recieve' concept. I dont know why i felt that way, just never really paid much attention to it nor gave it much credit. Anyway, ive been sitting and thinking about the past year. Ive realised that i got exactly what i kept putting out to the universe (not really asking), relationship wise.

After that hardcore messing relationship of mine, i was convinced that marriage would force me to get over my x. I remember i kept telling close friends that i just wanted to settle down and get married. (keep in mind that im indian lol). And guess what, i ended up meeting a guy (actually he saw me and tracked me down)getting involved with a guy who really wanted to marriage from the start. He was a creep i later found out.

After i came to my senses about the marriage idea being the wrong choice, i kept saying i just want a 'summer fling' . That too i ended up coming too me. Lol this guy was the biggest liar and king of deciet.

After that, i kept saying that i want someone i am compatible with and who cares for me alot. And i met sometime with that criteria too.

my point, guys, becareful what you put out into the universe , coz sometimes getting what you want isnt what you expect.

[TiepayWrary]

That's so perfectly true

Be SPECIFIC! When you ask, give the details! I want... a man who will treat me well in all aspects, who respects me and loves me. Who is willing to put up with my faults and I his. Who is kind and attractive, etc.

[GutleNus]

Not sure about the Universe Hon but I do know that our personal grid program, that which we will experience, is programmed into our DNA. How we react to experiences is the thing that makes the difference since we have free will to go "left" or "right" . How we manage that decision is entirely up to us but is part of what will make us who we are to eventually become a full spectrum person. I don't think the Universe per se really gives a hoot but we are the ones who really hold the keys to our happiness.