[psbiuigw]

i recently had a 'flash' that my boss was widowed. a week later she informed me her husband was just diagnosed with cancer and they are awaiting results to see if it has spread.
i had blocked these flashes out since my teen years because they scared me, they have only recently began re-occuring and i have decided to develop them properly instead of running from them.. but how do i deal with the guilt i feel knowing something like this? im trying to let it go and accept that its his path but i just feel terrible knowing his two little girls could be without a father soon.

[mrllxp]

Why would you accept this as guilt? It's not your fault he is sick or that you had a premonition of his death. It's horrifying to think that this family is going through this, you seem like a caring person, maybe instead of feeling guilty you can lend a shoulder to lean on.

[Donlupedron]

I agree, did you give him cancer? No. This is a gift. Though it feels like a curse. So why would you know this without being able to stop it? Because sometimes you may be able to. In order to trust what you are receiving, they are giving you provable premonitions.

You will evolve the more you work on it. Things will not seem so scary. There are plenty of lessons here to learn. Please go through and begin that journey.

[quottrethew]

Dear Amaya..
Though the experience was somewhat different for me, the feeling is the same whenever you predict the death of any living being. I understand what you're going through and can only offer this advice and an ear to listen if you need to talk.
Try to be still with it. The more you think on it, the more judgment you feel and the more pressure you get towards being the one to 'break the bad news'.
How I got through it was waiting, letting them get the nature of the diagnosis, and sitting until I felt it was a comfortable enough period where they could handle hearing what I had to say.

I was all too consumed by the fear that my friend would blame me for the incident during her period of grief. If you're curious when the time will be right, look up the stages of grief and see when the appropriate time to bring it up is. In my own personal experience I know waiting did us both a world of good because when we were able to talk about it she understood I was just sharing information I felt she needed to hear. The experience brought us much closer to each other and she was thankful that I was there for her despite knowing it was going to happen.

I really wish for you peace of mind, and I hope that you are able to bring comfort to those around you through waiting. I know it's a tumultuous time right now but it will be worth it to help yourself to understand it before bringing it to her and her family. Best of luck deary! (: