[pharmaclid]

Lmao, that's a great story Smiles. Yeah, the brick wall really works. It makes my brother cry though, because when its up he can't make me mad, hehehe.

I can't believe u work at McDonald's Zinthar, Omg. I've pretty much got my empathy handled, but working at McDonald's would make things very difficult, whew.

"I want three McDoubles, a value-fries, and a plastic water cup."

Anyway, here's one:

Put up a rose in front of you on your aura. All outside energy hits the rose and immediately travels downwards. Energy grounds extremely well when you provide it with a lightning rod.

Now, the most important part of this method is converting the energy and calling it back up through your feet chakras.

There is no fail-safe that I know of short of perhaps enlightenment, but these methods will all help u tremendously.

[iqxdvjgmat]

Hi everyone, I havent been on for awhile, I have been so busy. But i had a question if anyone could answer for me. I know I am very intuitive and alot of people have told me i have been right on with the information I tell them. I even have things in my own life that I feel will happen and I confirm with other psychics to verify, and i am right on the money. The problem is, is that at times, I will get very sick to my stomach and get a visual shortly after, usually of people I know, and then shortly after i will hear about my visual because it actually happened. I am still in the learning process of my ability and I would like some ideas on how to continue to understand what my abilities are. Can anyone help me with that? Also, I was told that I pick up others peoples energies alot of the times and I try to push it away but at times it doesnt work, anyone have any ideas about that. I would much appreciate it.

thanx
Beany

[pertikuss]

beany1981,

My advice would be to try meditation. It helps to calm and focus the mind allowing you to discover where your interests truly lie. It needn’t be a serious mediation. Sometimes just sitting in a quiet place and counting your breaths is all that is needed on a regular bases in order to be more focused.

As for 'feeling' other people's energy. You sound like an Empath to me. It can be good or it can be bad depending on how you manage to cope with it. I had to learn to ground myself and choose my social situations more carefully.

As for pushing it away. I did this for such a long time and it made me ill. Try to go with the flow of your natural energy and accept that whatever comes to you is for your own good and wellbeing. If you are particularly uncomfortable with something simply 'ask' it to give you some time to work things out. Be strong and stay above the battles.

[mr.nemo]

Great answer Dancer ! I too am an Empath and the more I push it away I get sick. Meditation works wonderful - it centers me. Even just sitting quietly is a huge help.
When I learned that I was an Empath, everything came together. I wasn't crazy with emotions running amuck.

[SaLifHoq]

On the classes section, I teach psychic development. Its there in the threads. The first class is dated 11/11 and then you need to just follow the ones that say PD by Pagan Medium.

I now have revised that class, put it to powerpoint and I teach it for a small fee online interactively.

Whichever way you'd like to learn it is your choice.


You can find me in the spiritual marketplace for the link to my classes taught online.

Pushing it away I did for over 20 years. It makes you miserable and really its not right. You were given this for a reason.

Laura

[pertikuss]

Great answer Dancer ! I too am an Empath and the more I push it away I get sick. Meditation works wonderful - it centers me. Even just sitting quietly is a huge help.
When I learned that I was an Empath, everything came together. I wasn't crazy with emotions running amuck.

Thank you.

[iqxdvjgmat]

Thanks guys, I really appreciate it. You guys are awesome, and Pagan Medium, I will have to take you up on that because I would really like to learn howto utilize my abilities and handle them so they dont effect my life. I have been speaking with a friend that is also psychic and she tells me to push the energy back. But sometimes it gets so hard that I get really bad anxiety from it. I meditate every morning and every night sometimes it helps alot and other times it doesnt. Right now, its hard for me to even go to alot of public places. I cant even go around my family right now its so bad. I went to my parents house yesterday and only lasted about 10 minutes before I just couldnt handle it. I noticed the more and more I allow my abilities to form the harder it is for me to handle. My friend tells me I am being anti-social but he doesnt understand, yet when I tell him what is going to happen and what he is feeling he always tells me i am right. I have even hit sore spots with him and have made him cry, and he doesnt understand how I knew. Sometimes I want to block this from happening but then other times, I feel great to help people. Has anyone ever felt like that before?

Thanks for your input.....it actually is helpful. At least I dont feel so alone, like i am the only one that has ever felt that way.

Beany

[pertikuss]

beany1981,

I learned the hard way not to give other people the benefit of my abilities unless they ask for it. It meant I had to bite my tongue a lot but that was better than losing friends.

I have folks asking me stuff and I answer them in the guise of well-meaning advice. I don’t look for recognition or reward, if I can help I will. I don’t feel the need anymore to tell everyone I meet about my abilities.

As for being an Empath and dealing with family occasions. I accept invitations but I let them know I can only stay a couple of hours. Making up my mind beforehand on how long I will stay makes the whole situation more bearable, and there are no long goodbyes and excuses when I’m ready to leave.

[iqxdvjgmat]

Thanks Dancer, you have been very helpful. I really do appreciate it. But does it get easier in time? Or do you still find that you have a hard time with the emotions you pick up or even with people in general. I am a little scared by what I feel at times, especially when I know something bad is about to happen. I was on the phone a couple of weeks ago speaking with a friend and I was telling her about this guy I kept seeing laying on the ground in the middle of the street, and a really bad accident. After the fact, it was like 3 days later, I started to feel really sick and the scene was right in front of me. Then no longer than a couple of hours later I heard a bang outside of my house, and it was the same scene, i was seeing for weeks. Its really starting to creep me out. Its not even like I know what I will be shown it just happens and sometimes its some really bad things. I want to be able to control it. Besides meditation, which I will continue to do, are there other ways you handled these types of situations, where you were able to block some things from entering?

thanks again,

beany

[AncewwewBus]

Hi everyone, I havent been on for awhile, I have been so busy. But i had a question if anyone could answer for me. I know I am very intuitive and alot of people have told me i have been right on with the information I tell them. I even have things in my own life that I feel will happen and I confirm with other psychics to verify, and i am right on the money. The problem is, is that at times, I will get very sick to my stomach and get a visual shortly after, usually of people I know, and then shortly after i will hear about my visual because it actually happened. I am still in the learning process of my ability and I would like some ideas on how to continue to understand what my abilities are. Can anyone help me with that? Also, I was told that I pick up others peoples energies alot of the times and I try to push it away but at times it doesnt work, anyone have any ideas about that. I would much appreciate it.

thanx
Beany

When I read the part about getting sick and seeing visuals I think of Kundalini.

When I was younger My kundalini was out of control since I didnt have any one to help me with it and I would get very sick and that can conflict with other possibilities.

and about pushing away energy. I think of PSI Vampirisim. Where you can drain or refuse the surrounding energy with will power. This abilitiy is quite easy to use if you know how to control your and surrounding energy.

[pertikuss]

It only gets easier in that understanding what is going on makes it easier to manage. But there are many unexpected situations in our lives that will cause us to act and re-act differently. Unfortunately, most people’s way of dealing with it is by becoming quite reclusive.

[iqxdvjgmat]

thanks Dancer, I really appreciate all the info. I hope I can really get a handle on it or at least learn to accept it and not let it control my life. Thanks again.

Beany

[JessePex]

This is something I also have been struggling with for awhile...how to manage the empathic abilities when around other people.

I work for McDonald's and have to be around all types of personalities all the time. I find what works for me, in that kind of environment, is to make everyone happy. I make myself EXTREMELY happy before i goto work by praying and putting my mind in a very very happy place. Then when I get to work I focus on making people around me very happy with pleasant tone and words.

I find this helps form a lot of positive energy around that person. Being empath doesn't mean you have to feel what their personal self is feeling, it's about feeling what their soul is feeling. If you send out love energy or surround someone with a lot of light and warmth, due to the nature of Karma, you get back every thing you send out.

You will start to feel better immediately.

Something that came to me the other day which has been helping a lot with energies from other people is to just walk through it..Look up Psalm 23 on google it has helped me a lot.



God Bless
Love and Light
Amen

[Guaranano]

Ok here is a self learned trick when all this stuff was taboo in my life... Just imagine a brick wall surrounding you! and "KNOW" Nothing... and I ,mean NOTHING can break threw unless "You" Allow it"

You see... I used to have very very very VERY nosey neighbors lol
For some reason I was very uneasy when my neighbor had her "freind" over..... So for 5 years I would see his car pull up and I put a Huge brick wall around my home in my mind... I few times I even got a little testy " OK Try and break threw that !" lol

I was clueless about who her freind was... I just knew to protect myself.

5 years later I found out "who" her freind was : Ths is how the conversation went after he left:

neighbor:Joe (not mentioning real names) Just left

e:Oh is that your freind with the black car?

neighbor:Yes
He always gets a bit agitated when he come here.

Me:He's your freind... why would he get up set?

neighbor: Well... I dont tell people.. but he is a Psychic, he has no problem reading me when I visit him. But when he comes here he says he hits a brick wall! He said someone is very determined to keep people out and all he sees' s a brick wall, there very intuitive.

I told him I think Its me putting up the brick wall becouse I dont want him to know everything. He insists its not me But Im sure he is wong: Im very powerful like that.

Me : Your probably right, I can completely understand an invasion of privacy

LOL Now 1: you ask for a reading in your home or his home your "open" Or you just dont ask for one in your home!
2: Brick wall was mentioned a few times lol

Ok its not scientifically proven! But it works for me!

Imagine a brick wall keeping everything out inless you move that hidden brick and let it in! lol

The key to "feeling" others feelings is STOP and think does this feeling fit me in this moment? Or did it come out of no where?... Not you ... Say NO not now .... Brick wall lol

[iqxdvjgmat]

good morning guys thanks smiles4u and zinthar, I will try that as well. At this point I will try just about anything, I will have to let you know how it goes. those are great ideas... How did you guys start accepting what was going on with you? Was it weird for you? I am still confused about a lot of things, still trying to figure out if its my mind playing tricks on me, or I actually know. Sometimes I will second guess things that I feel, have you guys ever felt that way? By speaking with me do you guys feel I give off a positive energy, and if I protect myself enough?
thanks again for everything, I appreciate it.

Beany

[JessePex]

At first it was very interesting I had to come to terms that I was creating emotions around me before i was shown that i could see and feel other people's emotions. Sometimes i second guess and went through a very bad time in my life that almost drove me insane .. i mixed my empathic abilities with jealousy and worry..very very very very wrong to do. It took me almost 3 months after the fact in order to centre myself again and i am still having to forgive.

I learned to love it. I am in love with emotions all forms of it. I love being able to walk into a room and pin point exactly what someone is feeling. It is the most mystical roller coaster, and i mean roller coaster, of life. Yah it gets hard sometimes because I am still human and still have to register and work on my own emotions.

I feel a scrambling of trying to understand, a trying to learn too fast. Feels as though you need to be grounded out more that you are going to high too fast. Find some time to concentrate on your breathing and visually meditate that you are a tree with roots going deep into the Earth. Feel the wonderous warm energy of Mother Earth seeping into your very soul. The Root chakra located in the pelvis region is the Chakra associated with connecting to Earth. Grounding out your energies and feeling Human.

In order for you not to second guess try to talk to the person you feel is in the feeling. Start a conversation .. notice if someone leaves the room or work place and the room feels better again. It's a fun experience and a hard one

I am sending you some protection and prayer to help you on your way. My wish is that with doing so you might pick up something you already know how to do

God Bless
Love and Light
Amen