[VQdeochratis]

hi,

just an odd one, my sons father and i were together for a number of years but the problem comes in since we have broken up...

i play life out in my mind occasionally on how it will be - during these sessions (all seperate) i predicted the names of his next girlfriends, and each time i have been spot on - i didnt mean to predict the names i just came up with names and gave a little story to it... after the first one who was a wendy i thought of a kinda cliche' name so s****a it was... and s****a it was, then i tried an uncommon name and since i only ever met on I****d i chose that one and so it was - more recently i played out a path and gee whizz she is now in his life... but while he didnt wanna tell me he is seeing someone he kept it quite for a bit... and i dreamt it... and it was a few days after that that he mentioned a girl he was seeing...

When ever something is wrong with him I am the first to know not for any other reason but pure gut instinct... I dont want my nosey muscle to work on him anymore!!! I have cut a million cords with him and still to no avail, so i went out and got myself a Rainbow Obsidian which is really good for this job, and i held it in my left hand when i went to bed the other night, now apart from a horrid sore i have on the palm of my hand i am feeling much better.

he always did say that i knew him better then he knew himself, and it slipped out i couldnt help it i told him that i get the gut feeling and that i sometimes have visions of whats going on in his life in my dreams (problem is that sometimes its visions of his bedroom life - i really dont want these!!!) - needless to say it scared the living daylights outta him - maybe that was something i was meant to keep to myself.

I tend to find that some of things i play out (except for making huge money) in these little day dreams tends to happen, obviously not all otherwise id be sitting in my farm house watching my horses grazing in their paddocks whilst typing this married and with another child...

i know about the law of attraction and i put it down to that... but this is a complete weird one...

How many of you have had this?

[fubyFrery]

if you are not holding on to the cord why do you play out situations in your mind concerning your ex and his partners ? In order to really cut the cord you have to let him go first. Believe me i have been there.

k, the answer to that was that he wouldnt let me move on for quite some time... and each time i tried to he would cling on...

[pharmaclid]

I think that's natural. If you ask me, I'd say cutting the cords completely is more unnatural, although sadly sometimes its neccessary... :'(

And, 'tis a process regardless, for both people.

I may have to say goodbye to a friend of mine, to whom we are kindred spirits.