[espabamar]

Hi
I did a meditation on soul mates - and - it felt so real - but - I'd like to get your opinion about this.
I feel that for some reason - for my development - my soul mate did not reincarnate with me - that it stayed in the spirit world to help me in this life.
Have you heard of this - is it possible - I can't be the only one...

As soon as I met the soul - it was just like the visions I've been having of the Gold Tara - it 'merged' with me, danced around me - my heart almost died from the pressure - and it 'was' me - in some way - and then I asked 'why' did it say behind - and it was to help me in this life - to push me, because I needed it.
It gave me a white rose - and a cloak of protection (love).

And I think wow - I've always felt so alone - and yet I realise that I'm here to learn independance - and now - I see/feel that she's 'there' for me any time - that I'm not alone - that we are one - and it is with her I can share my true self with.

Tell me your thoughts - thanks. You always shed new light on these topics for me... love

[Ornamiviant]

You hit the nail on the head. We don't always come back together because we have individual tasks we need to do. They chose to stay behind to help us and the other way around. Don't worry you will meet again and until then be thankful that they gave you this wonderful opportunity with the knowledge they gave you. Blessed be!!

Love and blessings

[espabamar]

lovely!!
Thank you for replying.
Yes - thank full!

To have found her, within, is really something though. I feel as though I'm getting closer and closer to 'me' with each day that passes - and to think to be more me - I have to get to know her, is really a funny thing!

[SantaClaus]

I feel that my soul mate is one of my spirit guides. We have been together in past lives, and will be in at least one future life - but in this life, he is in the spirit realm and I am in this realm. I am so glad you posted this, because I felt so alone in this situation, like he and I were just so weird! I've always been pretty afraid to talk about it...

[espabamar]

!!
Eternal night!
Big hug...

But now! I feel happier than I did before. Becauses I can call her any time I want - and, actually, I don't think she leaves me - since yesterday she's just 'there' and 'talking' to me...
I'm happier and lighter for the knowledge. hugs

[lasadeykar]

I once had a vision. Perhaps somebody can tell me what it means. I saw that my soul-mate and I were "taking turns" throughout the ages. One life, I was released upon the world, causing great destruction, while my soul-mate was bound in hell. Then, when I would feel her pain from the earth, and when I could take it no more, I would return to hell, and she would be unleashed upon the earth. I remember longing to be with her so much. We were seperated by lifetimes, and universes, and iron bars that could not be penetrated. She would leave me messages in hell when I returned, and I watched the path of destruction she left in her rage on earth. We were both angry, that this was what we had to do. We were commanded by a primal energy that superseded free-will. I said to my captors in hell, "bring me my wine," and they replied, "Yes master, we will do all that you command."

I saw, with stark clarity, and deep conviction, my lady, dressed in black, her arms were rigid with muscles. She clutched a long sword in her right hand, her hair was as black as night, and her eyes were piercing like mine.

I saw her pouring out her cup of wrath.

At the end of the vision, the bars were opened, I was told, "it is time to go." But something felt different. I asked, "Where is she?"

I was told, "She's still down there."

And, I asked, "So I may see her again?"

There was no reply, but I hadn't seen her in centuries, so my heart rejoiced that I might be given an opportunity to see her again, even if only for a brief time.

When I did return to earth, to the present day, the present time, to what you and I would call the "real-world," I immediately fell into mourning. I prayed to God for months that this vision was not true. I do not want to be evil, I want to be good, a child of the light. Now I am considering searching for her, if she is here, I want to find her. Perhaps there is a small possibility that maybe we aren't evil after all, that the vision simply arouse because of the pain of our seperation.

Where can I find her?

Is it the past that determines who a person must be, or is it the present moment, and the future? When the Light shines on my soul, and I am bundled up in the rest of the Almighty, I am at peace. I do not want to return to the darkness. I would do anything to keep from going back there. But, what if I heard her voice calling to me from down there? What would I do then? Maybe I have to save her from our dual fates, because our destinies are forever entertwined.

[espabamar]

wow... I have nothing to say - but thanks for writing.

[fygESytT]

The theory of this is Karma. Some twins are seperated , one in the spirit world and the other on this earth, and going back in forth.Others join for a time together on this world. Yes, Patheya, I have heard of this. Basically, because of the bad karma, with the rage and anger of your seperation, keeps you apart even longer and you two are not learning the lessons that you are supposed to learn. Like to love unconditionally, other people, to learn, things like, peace, patience, kindness, and the like. Will you reunite again, yes. How will be able to change that Karma? Look in the mirror, you two are one in the same, so the negative aspects of your life, make it a point to change, and when you two awitch, tell her to do the same. The theory is that we are seperated through bad karma, break the cycle, things should change

[ValintinoV]

I was reading up about soul mates the other day and your situation where you are incarnated and she isnt is apparently quite common. They choose to rather guide you from the astral world as it will allow you greater chance for growth and she will know better how to help you...

Take care.

[espabamar]

I must admit - before I had my big 'revelation' at 21 (something that looking back could have been orchestrated by her) I was on a downward spiral of hate and blame and negativity.
I've had a few 'tough' lessons since then - but when I had them, I had the strength of mind to see the bigger picture. Maybe not at the time, but within a short period of the event occuring.
It all makes sense - thanks for helping clarify things.

[lasadeykar]

So, we may have been made aware of this so we could break the cycle?

[espabamar]

yes. I think so. And difficult though it is to admit we (the ego) is wrong - the more I step into the light - the more the light comes to me.
I 'suspend' doubt at this stage. I lift it away from me. I tried it 'my' way - and it was not anything as wonderful as 'light's' way.

[lasadeykar]

Hooray!

[espabamar]

[Triiooman]

is it possible that our soulmate might be our guide or spirits? when I heard the word soulmate's it is the person destined to you!

[SantaClaus]

is it possible that our soulmate might be our guide or spirits? when I heard the word soulmate's it is the person destined to you!

My spirit guide is my soul mate, so yes. He and I will be reunited in another life, just as we have been together in a previous life. He has told me that this life is, for me, something to break a cycle of some sort and ensure that we can be together in my next life. Nathaniel and I have always been close, and I rarely expect that anyone could comprehend what it would be like when I tell them that my spirit guide is also, as I have discovered...my soul mate. With how clearly I can see and feel and hear him, it can be painful at times. But he is with me, so I am grateful for that - and he helps me in many things in life, including even matters of love! We have a healthy relationship, even if it is odd in nature - we know we can't really do anything about this "barrier" between us, and so we accept our roles of me living this life and learning and breaking that cycle, and him helping me out as much as he can and just being there for me sometimes.

My question is, can there be more than one soul mate? Because I feel that I am predestined to find a certain someone in my life - don't know who he is at this point, obviously - and yet, standing right here is my soul mate. It's odd...

[lasadeykar]

I think she's alive right now. Somewhere :'(