[sirmzereigMix]

When my wife and I had our first kiss we had a spontaneous out of body experience where we floated out of the place we were at and spun around each other for maybe 1-2 minutes it was something neither of us had experienced before or since(we have had moments of intense connected feelings though, and other very unique experiences). But what puzzles me is that even though we have such a seemingly strong spiritual connection, we really seem incompatible in our goals and our outlook on life. Anyone else have a comparable relationship to this?

[educationonlines]

Oh cool, sometimes I can sense my soulmate out there and I'll get tingly feelings. I haven't quite pinpoint who he'll be but I have a feeling I will meet him within 10 years.

[Sironimoll]

I don't believe that we have soulmates per-se, but we do have individuals we connect with much better. Because if we all agree that we are individuals, with different strengths and weaknesses, different attributes, there is nobody that is quiet an exact match, but those that are very close bring a very special feeling.

I think we have all felt a very strong bond at some point.

In my experience, this idea of soul-mate is more powerful when outlook on life, and goals, are similar. Because what we want in this world is someone to live it with...to go through this tough world. We want someone who has similar goals, want a similar life, and have a similar idea of how to live life. Just being spiritual is not enough because spirituality is expressed in many different ways.

[ManHolDenPoker]

I think we recognise souls that we are connected to. They may be lovers or even enemies from a prior life and as such we will respond to them in a relevant way.

You recognised each other and you responded. I don't think that having different interests and goals is a bad thing.

My partner of 18 years is very different from me, people often comment on how different we are but those differences are the things that make us strong as a team. We do have interesting discussions at times but that does make us grow as people.

[sirmzereigMix]

Thank you for all the replys, it seems me and my wife of 6 years are going through a rough spell and hopefully we will both grow and mature from the friction. We are both cancers (she is 1 year younger) and I think that makes both of us overly sensitive. The obo when we met was truly amazing, neither of us were spring chickens when we met(she was 30 and I was 31), and neither of us had anything close to that happen before even though we had both been around the block a few times.

[hubua990]

Make sure that you go back and talk about the things that you did when you first met, the memories of when you first fell in love. Your history as such, reaffirm that and talk. So many times when we go through a rough patch we have stopped talking. Really talking that is, often the reaffirming of those connections starts you on the path to speaking of other more current concerns.

Sometimes you might have to really push to find out what is going on as well, on both sides of the relationship, sometimes it is necessary to argue to progress. Arguing is not always a bad thing, as long as you are also listening and allowing each other to speak.

[FjFHQLJQ]

I too met my current partner in my 30's. Although it can be a wonderful thing you can at times lose sight of your goals and feel you have missed out on something now you have commited to change. Remember when feeling down and thinking negative thoughts about life and it's changes the closeness you can share can make the doubts disappear in a blink of an eye. Don't forget to have together time as well as alone time.

[sirmzereigMix]

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This is me and my wife if anyone who's intuitive wants to give a reading, thanks in advance.

[Lauramalina]

That feeling you got was because she is your soulmate. She is your other half. She's the other side of what you are. She's everything you're not but when you come together you make a whole.
People think that when you meet your soulmate that you no longer have to put any work into the relationship and that it will be easy, but thats not true. You have to work at it.
There have been people who met their soulmate and lost them in their lives because it wasnt the right time for both of them. It doesnt mean anything bad in this world. But on the other side you will be together because she is your other half.
The pain of losing a soulmate i'm sure is immense so try to work things out. Try to understand each other better. Don't let things get out of hand and dont let petty arguments ruin a relationship.
Write down every day a short list of things you love about them that day. You get more of what you're thankful for. So remember to thank Spirit everyday. Good luck. I hope all will turn out well.

[sirmzereigMix]

That feeling you got was because she is your soulmate. She is your other half. She's the other side of what you are. She's everything you're not but when you come together you make a whole.
People think that when you meet your soulmate that you no longer have to put any work into the relationship and that it will be easy, but thats not true. You have to work at it.
There have been people who met their soulmate and lost them in their lives because it wasnt the right time for both of them. It doesnt mean anything bad in this world. But on the other side you will be together because she is your other half.
The pain of losing a soulmate i'm sure is immense so try to work things out. Try to understand each other better. Don't let things get out of hand and dont let petty arguments ruin a relationship.
Write down every day a short list of things you love about them that day. You get more of what you're thankful for. So remember to thank Spirit everyday. Good luck. I hope all will turn out well.

Thank you for that most gracious reply, everything you said was right on.