[Wetekemieluth]

Thanks for the replies!

I really feel that I need to learn how to stop obsessing about things like this. Every time I manage to go a day without hoping I will see him, then I see him. Trouble is, I have a very hard time getting this hope out of my mind. Any suggestions? It's soo hard to not think about it!

[ForumMasta]

I believe that everything that isn't a coincidence happens thru an effort made by others If there were very few coincidences then you would actually be in control of very few things in your own future, right?

[constanyiskancho]

I strongly believe i Angels, ask for their help and guidence, but you have to be clear in what you are asking for (they cant make him love you) but they can certainly help. maybe a bit of clarity? good luck. x x

[xanaxist]

I met my soul mate in a "chance" meeting. Hard to say what the reason is...but there is a reason. Take it slow.

See how it feels.

Go by the car dealership and say Hi. See if he wants to go for coffee. If it was meant to be it will.

I believe that we do have "free will" but we also have set out certain things,events, and people that if followed leads to a life of happiness.

[Slintreeoost]

It seems like you've both been shown a path towards each other, perhaps shown by an angel or guide of sorts, they can only show you the path it's up to you to walk it or not.

best of luck.

[investmentonlinev2006x]

I'd agree that your paths crossed for a reason. Both of you were lead down similar paths of life and made a connection after all those years. I don't believe in coincidences so to me this just screams some definite guidance brought you two together. I'd ask for more guidance and then take the initiative to call him or approach him even if it's for a coffee. Ask that your fears be released so you can make the contact with him.

The other thing to think about as well if you do listen to your guidance is........Could this be a romantic type situation or could there be even more. Possibly with same back grounds and knowledge perhaps it will lead you into a prospective business adventure together.

I hope everything works out for you and you follow your instincts with this. Fear only holds us back from what we are to become and experience.

Love and blessings

[quottrethew]

Yeah, this doesn't sound like a coincidence at all. I'm sure you'll see him again sometime. And maybe it was that he was just there a season. I'd say try to remember where he lives so you can go visit him. Maybe fate has quit giving you un coincidences waiting for you to take your own steps.

[Wetekemieluth]

Hi all,
I'm new around here... I posted in introduction here if you're interested.

Anyway, I have been going out of my mind debating something, and so I though I'd look for people who might be able to advise me. I know it's long, but please bear with me. Here's my story:

I work at a car dealership and about two months ago I came to work to see someone I went to high school there, obviously purchasing a car. (I bought a new car the day before - coincidence /synchronicity #1)

I hadn't seen him in 10 yrs but about a month before this, I actually thought to myself, "I wonder what soandso is up to these days?"

Long story short, we end up talking and he tells me about the last few years of his life... he had a corporate job but couldn't handle the stress that came with it, so he quit and took up a job at a bookstore/coffe shop. I had gone thru the same thing at about the same time; I quit a stressful "corporate" job and went to work at a retail shop on the same outdoor mall where he worked at the coffe shop. I frequented his shop on my breaks. In retrospect I actually saw him there and when I got back to work, I told a coworker about the cute guy at the shop (I didn't recognize him b/c he wasn't wearing his glasses. I don't think I would have recognized him at my dealership if he hadn't been wearing them that day).

So he tells me that he eventually needed a more stable job and now he is about to start a job a less stressful somewhat corporate company. Again a coincidence/synchronicity because I had just started my "happier, corporate" job at the dealership w/in the past month.

In conversation, he says he's "tired of being afraid of life" which I found shocking because that has been the theme of my life these past few months.

I mention to him I'm moving to the city, which is where he lives also. Later, upon processing his paperwork, I see that he lives about one block down from where I'm moving.

Since I moved, we have run into each other a few times. One day, I'm walking my dog, feeling sad about a relationship that I had just ended, and he appears on the other side of the street. He comes to talk to me, and mentions that he just broke up with his girlfriend.

So now I'm wondering, all of this seems TOO synchronicitous (is that a word?) to be just coincidence. But if so, then what's going on here? I haven't seen or talked to him since the day he broke up with his GF. He has my phone #'s from the day at the dealership, but I have lost hope that he's going to call. Was all of this really nothing that I turned into something?

Thanks in advance for any insight!
Divka

[AllAdobeOEMSoftDownload]

Hi and welcome

I personally don't think there are any coincidences in the world. Everything happens for a reason. Your story reminds me of a saying. I can't remember the exact words, but the jist is that some people come into your life for a reason, some for a season and some for a lifetime.
There is obviously a reason that after 10 years this guy comes into your life again. Like something is trying to bring you together. Maybe when you didn't recognise him in the shop fate thught it had to try harder lol.
I certainly don't believe that things just happen for a coincidence. Maybe give him a call instead of waiting. He might be doing the same as you and waiting for YOUR call.
Good luck

[Wetekemieluth]

He didn't give me his number! I am hoping to bump into him outside again, but have had no luck so far... I honestly feel so silly, cause I think about him every single day, and I hardly know him. I just hope I didn't blow my chance to get to know him.

[constanyiskancho]

I agree, he came back into your life at the time he did for a reason,.It may be just so that you know your not alone in the path that you are treading(you have had the same expierences of life) and in time it might be that you will be together.I hope things go as you are hoping but int the mean time go on with your path it may cross his again it may not but there will be someone else for you,no doubt.Sending out positive thoughts for you x x x

[casinobonuswer]

I agree. There are too many coincidences there to be just coincidence. Even if it isn't that he is the one, maybe he will introduce you to Mr. Right. There has to be some reason that you ran into him after all that time and all of the "coincidences" occurred. Maybe you need to drop by his house and invite him over for dinner or something if you know which one he lives in. Good luck!! Keep us posted

[Lauramalina]

You're angels put him in your path because you are familiar with him and you have similar experiences in life and are both ready for a change. It seems your angels think that it is a well deserved change and it would be less shocking if you heard it from someone you trusted than somebody you didnt. If you do meet up and get together than you will have someone to go through your experience with and will know what you're going through. Good luck on the life change. Wish you happiness