[brilkyPlayday]

Hi pagan and Vilani, i just wanted to comment on what has occured in other posts on the forum, but thought id start a new thread here.

Ok Vilani, i understand what your trying to do , and ok great you want old members to come back, and if you have private messaged them thats fine too, but i find your attitude is being disrespectful to Pagan.

Pagan is a mod, she is also older than you (respect for elders) and she has been on this forum a long time , therefore when she asks you to NOT do something show respect on the forum and then politley PM her and let her know that you have allready contacted the other members... SOrry Vilani , i just feel you blatently showed disrespect to her on the forum.

Now do i agree with everything Pagan says no, do i agree with everything you post, and most importantly neither one of you would agree with everything i post.

But this is not about that at all, its just showing moderators respect on the forum, its why we have people in charge on forums, we give them the trust and respect to keep the forum flowing.


But this is not a beat up on you Vilani, i agree i would like to see alot of the old crew back on here, but we all leave for our own reasons, i did, capn did, mystic andf chris,, there are hundreds more that in thier own time will find thier way back here... But if you choose to pm them thats great and that your right, i agree with you... but also be aware some that are not on here , may have caused grief to others so just be aware, thats all..

I like you vilani, i think you have talent for sure, your funny, people like you here and i think your great too, but please show a little more respect even if you dont truly mean it haha,

Its just if we all start showing disrespect openly on the forum then this forum will have no mods and the forum will end.


Love and Light Villani

[AOE6q4bu]

Great post Yin!

I agree we all have lives outside the forum sometimes I have a hard time finding time to post on a daily basis!

But like Yin and Laura said you gotta respect their reasons for Leaving!

It would be great if a few members come back there are some I miss but our journey has other plans for us! We all just gotta be a little
more understanding and show respect to everyone!

These forums are here for us to learn, have fun, meet friends etc! Not a place to create Drama! Life is hard enough and we just need to
be more understanding towards others on here!! You can't force anyone to come back if they are not ready!!

Love and Light!

[JNancy46]

I totally agree with ya comet.

[AOE6q4bu]

Thanks Harmony!!

[BinasiDombrs]

Thank you Yinepu and Comet - That's all I was saying. Respect is a 2 way street.

[Candykiss]

Hi pagan and Vilani, i just wanted to comment on what has occured in other posts on the forum, but thought id start a new thread here.

Ok Vilani, i understand what your trying to do , and ok great you want old members to come back, and if you have private messaged them thats fine too, but i find your attitude is being disrespectful to Pagan.

Pagan is a mod, she is also older than you (respect for elders) and she has been on this forum a long time , therefore when she asks you to NOT do something show respect on the forum and then politley PM her and let her know that you have allready contacted the other members... SOrry Vilani , i just feel you blatently showed disrespect to her on the forum.

Now do i agree with everything Pagan says no, do i agree with everything you post, and most importantly neither one of you would agree with everything i post.

But this is not about that at all, its just showing moderators respect on the forum, its why we have people in charge on forums, we give them the trust and respect to keep the forum flowing.


But this is not a beat up on you Vilani, i agree i would like to see alot of the old crew back on here, but we all leave for our own reasons, i did, capn did, mystic andf chris,, there are hundreds more that in thier own time will find thier way back here... But if you choose to pm them thats great and that your right, i agree with you... but also be aware some that are not on here , may have caused grief to others so just be aware, thats all..

I like you vilani, i think you have talent for sure, your funny, people like you here and i think your great too, but please show a little more respect even if you dont truly mean it haha,

Its just if we all start showing disrespect openly on the forum then this forum will have no mods and the forum will end.


Love and Light Villani

Ok. I like you too

[VardyCodarexyz]

Villani..I am so sorry that I asked you to elaborate on what you meant. Maybe it is me...but I dont see how he disrespected anyone. I understand Pagans viewpoint on the subject and as someone who has some history on here I am sure she had her reasons for being upset about it.

And if we are going to talk about respect Yinepu...then is it fair to say that members should also respect others members viewpoints and not write harsh and hurtful posts to one another as well? Everyone on here should respect one another thats what this forum is about isn't it? Being open to the opinions of others? Sharing and learning..everyone of us?

The MOD's...thank God for you on keeping this forum running the way you do...as a member I appreciate it so much this is in no way to say that I dont think you should be respected because I do...very much so, I just didnt see the disrespect in the post this is referring to.

[brilkyPlayday]

Newdawn,

It seems you have an issue with me , how about not reading mine anymore please, this is i believe the 3rd time youve jumped in and accussed me of hurful and harsh posts.

I have been polite and helpful in your threads have i not ???

This is in regards to Vilani, if you read the 2 posts he made , he blatenlty ignored Pagans advice , and went to the next topic and posted exactly the same thing,,,, i thought it was a bit rude, against moderators on this forum.... simple no big deal, vilani didnt take offence, pagan didnt , so why d you keep getting involved and calling me disrespectful ????

Say and do as you wish i will no longer be adding to this thread.

P.S newdawn, had i not just helped you , when you were feeling down, i think your words were thankyou for making me laugh !!! So please dont accept things from me then 2 seconds later call me hurtful and disrespectful. Your being hurtful now !

[VardyCodarexyz]

There was an issue on another thread...in which I asked Villani to clarify what he meant. He did so and then there was a discussion between he and Pagan..I stayed out of it because it wasn't my concern they handled it, I thought on the other thread. It was over and done with. He had already contacted the members..and I took it as an innocent act and then Pagan stated her point. As a long term member and a MOD. I respect both people and left it be. Her point was valid and Villani conceded.

And then this thread was created as a new topic about Villani being disrepectful in another thread for all members to see and view. I thought that was cruel to Villani. Whether he said anything or not.

If you had started a thread and said "hey everyone, I recently seen some posts that call for us to remember to respect our MOD's..." then I would have 100% agreed with you and thought nothing more of it...but you CLEARLY called him out here telling us all his wrongs on the other thread and then by saying oh by the way I like you. So is it ok for you to do that...and then not me...hey Yin, I like you but I dont like the way you did what you did here???

I have a come to the rescue personality...its who I am and who I have always been. If I think somebody is being treated unfairly I say so. Yes, you DID help me on another thread...a great deal actually. And there are many, many threads that I read from you and agree with or laugh about but sometimes you do have a tendency to sound harsh...I am not trying to be hurtful and I am sorry if I hurt you. And maybe I am the one who is wrong here...I am not perfect either but I felt bad for Villani that everyone was now reading this brand new posts about how disrespectful he was after it was already said on another thread.

[Gastonleruanich]

This is going no where..........closure would be wonderful

Love and blessings