[movlabc]

Thanks so much for the reply, that really helps. At the moment she is back but things aren't good and I'm positive she doesn't want to be here. I've made it clear that if she wants to go into other care that's ok with me so we will see what happens. Thanks again for the reply.

[JakilSong]

Her mum is a drug addict and wont go into rehab, there is so much going on in her life at the moment really complicated, all with her past and family.

[payowlirriply]

that is a painful thing to see while your growing up... well, if I were you, I guess I would try to reach in for the girl and get to know her. I'd make her feel that there are people in this world that she can rely to...

[Tazqoaap]

Teens are hard. I have one.

They are going through a lot of emotional changes as well as hormonal. She is at that stage we all go through. Some deal with it better than others.

Send her love, compassion and healing light.

Be calm and patient. Talk softly even when you get angry or frustrated.

She may need some medical intervention.

I'll tell you when I tap in she is angry because of her mother and she feels like she has no control in her life. It's not your fault. Just keep up what you are doing. You are a wonderful person for helping her out.



Keep the faith


We are all here to help you. You're not alone


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Thanks so much for the reply, that really helps. At the moment she is back but things aren't good and I'm positive she doesn't want to be here. I've made it clear that if she wants to go into other care that's ok with me so we will see what happens. Thanks again for the reply.

[movlabc]

I'm hoping someone may have some intuitive thoughts on this because I'm stressing and don't know what to do. I caregive a young 15 year old who is going through some rather heavy stuff. She got completely out of control the other night for no reason and came very close to hitting me in the face. She trashed her room and then spent 2 hrs sitting in her car ready to take off. Even though she doesn't have her license. She has gone home for a day as she needed to tell her mum some stuff to get off her chest which she did tell me about but when I called to say I'd pick her up today she has refused to come home. She is under care so will be forced to come home but I'm not sure I can cope with her anymore. I can't handle her moods and this last outburst has left me really shaken. I took her in as she was a friend of my daughters and she's been with us for a year but I have only just witness this violent outburst over the last few days. I understand there is some heavy stuff in her past that she has had to get out but I'm really not sure how to cope with her now. I've never been trained for this sort of thing and am so scared that because I'm not experienced in this I may not be able to help her.

[UitEz0Qo]

First of all Blessings to you....

You need to let her go, and deal with her issues, she knows that you are there for her... you enable her to go home and talk to her mum.. I think she needs a little more time with her.

Then as a carer of this young girl you also need to do what you need to do...(if that makes sense...)

Explain to her, that you understand her need to vent things out with her mother and what ever else, because I love you and I am not able to care for you any longer, you need to do what you need to do, BUT I am here for you...

You were brought to push this girl in the right direction, give her what she needed... and you have done that... now its time to let her go and move forward....

Peace and Blessings to you..