[ForumMasta]

If you have no one to miss then you don't know what your missing. You don't have that emtional attachment.

But if you have love and lost you do know what your missing and that makes it sadder to me.

Make sense?

[lopaayd]

this below, says it all for me (in the light of recent experiences...lol)..

[outfinofulpv]

Thats like it's better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all.

Tough one.

I think it's sad to have never loved (or to have no one to miss) but when i think of the people i love i would never want to loose them.

[nushentelve]

I Think Its Sadder To Not Have Any One To Miss... At Least When You Loose Someone You Have The Memories Of That Person To Think Of.

[Rellshare]

They are both bitter-sweet....
Best to have loved then never to have loved at all..right?
Hard though sometimes, I miss a few people right now...

[anderriter]

I think it is sadder having no one to miss..lives are enriched by people and relationships however short or long we are given with our loved ones....

[quottrethew]

Coming out of a place of having no friendships outside of my family, I have to say having no one to miss. It gets very lonely without friends, and even aquaintance's. There's no way to expand your mind or your emotions when you don't have human contact. -- Mind you, I spent three years secluded from the rest of the world, so my experience may be different than someone else's, but I really think that you have to have a variety of attachments in life. I'm just now coming back into a place of contentment, and happiness and that's directly related to associating with other people again.

[Vegeinvalge]

Which is the sadder having miss someone you lost?
or having No one to miss?

Hunny, could we make the topic a little clear instead of ???. (next time) Just because more people are likely to participate and know what's going on when they see a title that's descriptive.

Thanks hun

Mystic

[arrismVam]

I think both are sad for different reasons. Having no one to miss means you are living a lonely life. To lose someone you love is a horrible experience. I, personally, can't say either is worse. Both are horrible situations for different reasons.

Blessings~