[haudraufwienix]

if we can't judge, doesn't that mean we trust everybody? isn't everybody inevitably a judge?

[moopogyOvenny]

we don't need to trust anybody but ourself, but we don't judge in the sense of thinking we are better, or anyone is less than us. we don't judge in a condemnitory manner. we know no matter what the outside appearances that everyone matters and is worthy in some way.

we don't have to leave our child with a grumpy person, or our wallet with a known theif though.

[Creva4k]

the issue, i think, is not so much to abstain from judging as it is to be conscious of it and to understand your judgments. i've found one's judgments reflect far more about oneself than the object of judging. and we're talking about value judgments here - in other words, whether somebody/thing is "good / bad" as opposed to "red / blue" or "soft / hard" or something where there is no moral component.

as ra say, nothing is to be overcome, but rather only to be integrated and accepted. in the end, it's about recognizing there's a difference between having personal preferences and rejecting a portion of the creation as unacceptable because you've universalized your preferences. the more you can see yourself and others as part of an interconnected creation, the more you see that your personal opinions are just part of the web and not canonical in any way but subjective.

in the area of trust, i'd suggest reflection on why you don't trust somebody (it wouldn't hurt to reflect on why you do trust somebody). you'll learn something about yourself, and it's not like forcing yourself to trust somebody is going to necessarily make you more sto or something. if you understand your reactions you can learn the lessons of your experience and ground them instead of just responding to stimuli in a mindless, kneejerk manner and wondering why things are so crappy.

[haudraufwienix]

interesting, thanks :d

[SnareeWer]

the don't judge part is accurate. judging is the act of seeing yourself as seperate from others. this feeds the material ego. that is bad because it disconnects you from your higher self. e.g.o = edging god out.

trust everyone, not a chance. i have been tought over and over that i should not trust anyone who is in the service to self paradigm. trust those who you know are in the service to others paradigm. this takes time to decipher. you really have to get to know someone before you can decide which train of thought they are in.

[NikolaAAA]

when i notice qualities that i don't like about a person i tend to stay clear of that person or i just don't let them act that way toward me. i actually have several friends who are very selfish towards others but are never like that towards me, it's a strange thing.

should i get the hero complex going and stop them from being selfish when they are around me though?

[Alex]

by trusting your self and your own intuition you are trusting everyone. the whole "we are all one deal".

alot of the rules/laws/suggestions poised by ra, q'uo and other confederation entites are lessons/teaching from a higher plane, meaning not directly aplicable to third to fourth transition. there are understandings that ra speaks of that they are still learning. the unified consciousness doesn't come till 5d, there is a long long long road ahead right now.

by putting too much thought into it you are taking away from the beautiful simplicity of life. just live happy, be kind, resonate your understanding from your deepest core and everything will be as it should be.

continue spiraling ever upwards,
austin

btw- it is impossible to not judge, every time you analyze something you are judging its qualities. it is consciously realizing when you have made a poor judgement that holds weight. no man/woman lives a life without some form of judgement, if they did they wouldn't be here, as there is no lesson this plane holds for one of such magnitude.

[haudraufwienix]

from the way i see it, don't judge, just share how you see the world, share point a views, leave differences behind, and be one lol :d