[uMG6uOSo]

fear not what you gain or loose, only that you gave unconditinally

can you be supportive without conditions
can you be helpful without conditions
can you be a sister/brother without conditions
can you be a husband/wife without
can you be a parent without conditions
can you be a friend without conditions
can you be a family member without conditions
can you just be without conditions

yes, boundries are exceptable, they are yours, what you will except and not, not what you expect of another

giving and receiving without conditions is real, your true self

with trust, faith, hope and love working in balance with life of another, you can give and receive unconditionally. not adding to, but just being that support or help that is wanted and needed

give trust to another
have faith in another
be hopefull for another
let love flow to the other

you know those experienses that test the unconditional

they are so hard when your emotions feed your heart and fear is felt. the fear of the unknowing of the outcome or sitution. worst, you look for the reason, your placement in the experience, what if's situations. you search within for higher awareness and understanding. you see some, but are lost in other pieces to the experiences. you are working hard to just be, trusting, having faith and just being in the experience. then, outside influnences move in. you are now dealing with other emotions other than your own. they believe they are helping with their advise or actions, explaining to you that you must do this or that., just making the experience more complicated. their help starts to feel like it is "conditional", like if you don't do what they say rather than what you know from "within" is correct, that you will be judged and then all the other lower emotions of fear, guilt, mix emotions start to grow and feed off your alread emotional heart. when if the "other" person could just give support without conditions that all would just be as it should be and not grow more, like a spider web.

when experiences/conditions surface unknowingly., you are thinking, i can
handle this-- and you may and will.... but, there is 2 sides to unconditional

1 - self
2 - outside of self

if unconditional support is placed and exercise in both the interself and outerself, their becomes balance . the self is better able to work to understand, learn from the experience without dealing with outside influnences that carry conditions that are not of their own.

be supportive without conditions
be helpful without conditions
be a sister/brother without conditions
be a husband/wife without conditions
be a parent without conditions
be a friend without conditions
be a family member without conditions
just be without conditions

yes, boundries are exceptable, they are yours, what you will except and not, not what you expect of another


real, true "conditions" do not exist and love is always bigger and stronger than fear

[uMG6uOSo]

this is what is meant by being a companion with one another.

not living by conditions of others.

your inner self, your true, real connection to the source is your guide.

[uMG6uOSo]

when you live from the self of within -- trusting and knowing that your self (inner) is your only guide --- you no longer fear, carve or look to anothers (outside of self) for approval. i.e., judgement is ego. you don't care --- because you know you are guided and you are were you are suppose to be.

you and all others are pure love and light experiencing an experience. you were born pure ! now we are living with it.

give and receive unconditionally

[PristisoliTer]

awesome posts! well said rhonda! :d :d

[Muramoursuard]

i second that! = )

[uMG6uOSo]

the act of "unconditional love" is something you don't pick and choose or who or what you want to love, it is about loving all that is regardless of the condition or conditions.

it just is --- your real self --- which is 100% love at the highest level !!
crystal pure as pure can be. a energy flowing through and through, non stop, no blocks, just flowing endlessly.

[uMG6uOSo]

don't "wound" with your thoughts, words or actions

"heal" with your thoughts, words and/or actions

let love be the ~moving~ force behind all that you think, say and do

[CAxrrAYN]

wow, amazing, please keep it coming!

[Kk21pwa9]

you go girl!!

i really like your posts and what you have to say. i think you are so right when you say we need to learn to be unconditional. but we also need to set boundaries. part of loving someone, i think, is to love yourself and not allow yourself to be hurt. this is where things really get tricky and hard. trying to protect yourself, set your boundaries, and still love and respect the other's freedom.

just wanted to show my appreciation.

my humble gratitude,

ryan