[Tusanoc]

everyday life shows us that women have less sex urges than men but this evidence is often overlooked in the media, at least this is my personal impression.
it's a difference that affects inter gender ralationships a lot but apparently people are often uncomfortable when it comes to discuss it.
why is that?

[Ivanaishere]

I don't believe this to be true. Unlike most men, some women are more picky and other women are concerned with the social consequences of being seen as "easy" (how will I be viewed by my peers? Is he just using me for sex? How will he perceive me if I give in too quickly? We'll he just have sex with me and move on? I need to know his true character for sure and so I'll take it slow and see what I learn... etc...). Once you get them in a relationship, however, they're just as interested in sex as most men.


A man sleeps with many women is put on a pedestal. A woman who sleeps with many men is considered a dirty whore. Most women don't want to give the impression that they're easy and that plays a huge role on how we interact with each other.

[Maphpseurse]

I don't believe this to be true. Unlike most men, some women are more picky and other women are concerned with the social consequences of being seen as "easy" (how will I be viewed by others? Is he just using me for sex? How we he perceive me if I give in too quickly?). Once you get them in a relationship, however, they're just as interested in sex as most men.

why prostitution and pornography are pred. male interests then?

[unmalryAlalry]

because men have testosterone, and it increase the men sex drive, that is why the man organ increases in size also, and women bodybuilders also increase thier organ in size and also thier sex drive increases(due to steriods that gives them men testosterone)

[yurawerj]

why prostitution and pornography are pred. male interests then?

Most women need an emotional attachment. Most men do not. For us it can be all physical and that's fine. Porn and prostitution is emotionally hollow for women. That doesn't mean their sex drive is weaker.

I know women who have a strong sex drive but they won't sleep around. They like sex alot but are very picky, like most women.

[Knillagrarp]

Women in general feel they need an emotional attachment to the person they're with. At least the ones who respect themselves do. when women become more like guys in how they express their sexuality, they become sluts/whores... they lose what made them modest and feminine. thats why you can find lots of girls who sleep with random guys at parties and prostitutes who don't mind sleeping with anyone.

What happens to a guy that says "I fucked that chick last night" in front of a group of people? He gets praised...if a girl did the same, the exact opposite would happen. too many other examples i could think of.

[oB8LI2kP]

It is up to the male to arouse the female if you can't do it you are not a proper male.

[Keyclenef]

why prostitution...

One thing for forgot to mention is that women don't need to pay for sex. Any woman looking for sex with no strings attached can go to a club and walk away with a guy. Even unattractive women can pick up someone eventually.

Men, on the other hand, well.... the escort business is a thriving business. There are more men than women and so the competition makes it rough for some of them. Even average looking women are picky because of the gender imbalance.

...and pornography are pred. male interests then? Women have their own pornography: erotic literature is very popular among women.

Also, pornography is very degrading to women. Many women don't like many of the things these chicks do. Porn stars get torn apart. I can't see how many women can find it hot. Some do, of course, but not most. I would think soft porn would be preferred by women over popular porn that sometimes looks like simulated rape at worst and at best treat the girls like rag dolls.

[nasdfrdg]

A male successfully can copulate every 10-15 minutes…

A female successfully can copulate every 9-10 months.


Simple math alone should indicate that a male's physiology allows him much broader 'promiscuity' (in strict terms of successful propagation). Women biologically are forced into bearing the child to birth; men are not.