[Niobaralegra]

Hi DoubleQ
I don't claim to know a lot about the subject - I can only tell you about my experience. If I were you I would be relaxed and don't be too pushy. There could be any number of things going on between your girlfriend and her family. Be patient and trust her judgement when it comes to things Thai. If you stay together, you MIGHT get to the bottom of things later on