[apannamma]

Lanmark i wasn't thinking of you when i wrote my initial post in this topic.

[Nafheense]

I know I should have wrote this to the moderators first, but I did it this way to get everyones attention!!

I hope I don't offend anyone!! But I know that this probably will!!!
I ( we , all) have noticed alittle more than judgemental conversations going on here. I am not perfect but I have noticed this!! The moderators have stepped in on a few occasions! I have not been on as much (posted) as I probably should. I have been having multiple health issues/personnal things going on for the the last year +++.. I hope that instead of "fighting" ect. it should be done in pm's to the person instead of on the forum. YES, I know that there is critisism ect. but some of it has been getting boring.. I am sorry for this but I had to say it!!

I am sorry for this but had to say it to get it off of my chest!!!!!!!!!!!! I ( we) have noticed that some of the regulars have also not been on, or on as much as they were!!! I hope everyone can agree especially the moderators!

[Suvuseh]

Thanks, Dot. But, like you, I don't have time to dig through it all. I do check the Cyp threads from time to time; but, I still missed whatever it was that's got Tom all upset. So, still in the dark here.....

[vioppyskype]

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[drlifeech]

ive been offended by the lack of multiforal pictures...but lately, that has changed

[Suvuseh]

You all have got me totally lost. I must've missed one helluva thread somewhere. I just don't have time to read everything; but, apparently, I missed something HUGE! Tom, in all honesty, the most contentious thing that I've read lately is your opening post. I kinda feel like the unpopular kid on the playground. Everybody knows what this is all about but me. *sniffle*

Seriously though, if you're going to post something like what you opened with on page #1, you kinda need to explain yourself better, please....to be fair to those of us who are "not in the same loop" as you. Otherwise, it really is best if you just deal with your complaint behind the scenes with a moderator. Right now, because of the refusal of people (who know what this is all about), to share details; but, rather, to say "let's not go there" (and deliberately keep me in the dark), I and others like me, who are not in the "know", are being treated like second class members of this forum.

Bottom line, if you're going to rant to me, at least be clear and tell me what the rant is about.....or, don't rant at all.

A bunch of angry innuendo without an explanation, just isn't cool. It's okay. I'm a big boy. I can take it. What's this all about?

[formobilagsw]

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[eEwbYjOH]

Really? That didn't strike me as much. We need to get Guido back here...............

[apannamma]

Allthough I understand your sentiment I still consider this to be the best Orchid forum on the net that I frequently visit. Lots of knowledge here and people who don't hesitate to share that knowledge.

And it wouldn't surprise me if the moderation team send out a few pm's to certain individuals over the last few weeks.

[Mello]

Burgers on the grill Sunday. 78F.
Door is always open.

[eEwbYjOH]

Same here....If anything, this forum has been milder now than it has been at various times since its inception. However, that said, even at its most contentious, this forum is still the most polite, reasonable, and respectful forum of any I have ever gone on, in any area of interest.

[PymnImmen]

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[Vegeinvalge]

where is all this fighting going on and how do I keep missing it?

[houkbsdov]

I hope his health is OK!

[asypecresty]

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[farmarrl]

I must be missing all these posts as I haven't a clue what is going on. I haven't read a word in anger for a long time now. In fact this forum is a lot tamer than it was when I joined where there was a lot more robust debate. So it would be nice if someone would elaborate a bit more rather than post cryptic messages.

[asypecresty]

I have been a forums boarder for many years and have seen LOTS of drama... Most of the time its the way something was written that sparks egos to fly.

Best thing too do.... Is not to take things in a serious manner.... If you feel a conflict is going to happen... give in and allow the other to pound there chest.... No good will come from conflicts on a forums board.... Everyone is tough behind there keyboard...

[houkbsdov]

Ah, F**k all a yous - from NYC!