[Tyncneiff]

I read somewhere on the internet that people are suckers for temptation. Which I think is so true.

Even Adam and Eve couldn't stop themselves from the temptation of eating the "forbidden" fruit.

How could you expect a human being with all of our flaws to do so.

Especially if the relationship is having problems. Or if your "dream man or woman" appears in front of you even though you are already in a committed relationship. Or if you are under the influence of drugs or alcohol. etc,etc,etc.

Yes I'm cynical cause I've been on both sides. I've been that other guy aka "Sancho" and I've been the guy that's been cheated on. I believe under the right circumstances 99.9999999% of people in a committed relationship would cheat. It's like the old saying "everybody has a price". But in this case everybody has that certain something that can push them over the edge from being a faithful partner to a cheater.

I'm sure alot of people who say their significant other would never cheat would be in the shock of a lifetime if they put them under a lie detector test or set up a decoy to try to get them to cheat.

This is not to say a relationship isn't worth it. Cause obviously there is a lot of enjoyment and pleasure to be gained from a good one. But if you are realistic, expect at least one of the people in the relationship is going to cheat at least once in the course of the relationship.

I'm sure there are people who will say they have "never" cheated and never will. But can they also say they've never "thought" about cheating on the significant other whether it be during difficult times or for whatever reasons. Cause if you thought about it already you're just one step away from infidelity.

[griddle]

I don't have a black heart. I live by a moral code. I don't cheat.

[carpartsho]

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/5359395/site/newsweek/

[carpartsho]

I am 37 yers old and I never cheat in a relation .
Even when I was young , when I was feeling that my relation with a girl don't work anymore , I split up with her and continue with my life .
And I don't have any taughts for cheating, till now.

[griddle]

Just some more feminist morally corrupt propaganda by the media. They do accept this kind of behaviour. Just like in Hollywood. Don't pay them no mind Saintas.

[krek-sikUp]

Thought I’d add my two cents. I’ve been working in a nightclub on and off for almost 10 years. I’ll tell you that I’ve had all manner of women make themselves available to me. I’ve never cheated, NEVER, and I know for a fact that I could’ve gotten away with it, my fiancée almost never comes to the bar and the staff there never get involved with people’s personal lives in that manner. Simply put, I have had MANY chances with some very hot women in that time. I didn’t take them simply because that I knew that my conscience would bother me, get it? So when other guys at the bar were getting it on in the bathrooms and the patio after hours, I passed. I didn’t want my fiancée/girlfriend whatever at the time, telling me how awesome I was and me knowing that she was wrong. Do people think about it, did I? Sure I did, then I did one more thing, I THOUGHT ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES, did I want to hurt the person that I loved? HELL NO. I think about the pain that my cheatiing ex caused me and I won't do that to my fiancee!! I’ve been there, I had the chance, I could’ve gotten Scot-free, but I didn’t cheat, hook me up to a polygraph, I’ve nothing to hide.

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[RSAccountssy]

It is true that there is no way of finding out whether that person will cheat on you or not, thus you always have to risk that when being in a relationship. I go for the golden rule, basically I treat you how you would like to be treated. You cheat on me, you're gone and vice-versa.