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Old 06-06-2012, 08:37 PM   #21
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One guy who just got out after doing 2 years spent all his time watching movies (on his personal tv). I don't know if he watched DVD's or On Demand or what specifically but he saw thousands of movies over the 2 years there.

It's not a bad lifestyle if you're built for it and most people in prison don't have much, or many aspirations, on the outside anyway.
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Old 06-06-2012, 09:24 PM   #22
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yes al, i can imagine why being locked up in a confined space with several thousand sex starved men would seem 'pretty sweet' to you.
Must not be only me considering how many people want to/don't mind going back. Recidivism.

Your friends and cousins are in prison. It's the hangout spot.

I don't think anyone actively wants to go to prison but do a lot of people have an attitude of 'ehh... it's cool' if they get caught? Definitely. For everyone that is in prison furious and punching the wall, there's another (usually young) who is a follower of the lifestyle.
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Old 06-06-2012, 09:31 PM   #23
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i would imagine that recidivism is due to the lack of opportunities to live an honest life if you've already been inside, rather than a desire to actually be inside.

the real question should be why so many men see crime as the best option open to them to make a living. this of course leads to questions about economic opportunities and social inequality.
No. It raises questions about culture. It's the view of the inevitability of a criminal lifestyle; the view that it is normal/typical/expected of Black men to be criminals at age 17-30, the same way that is normal/typical/expected of people to go to college, get drunk a lot, experiment with drugs, etc.

It's not economics. It's what people are taught they are supposed to be like; taught what they are supposed to emulate. It's what they follow.
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Old 06-07-2012, 12:32 AM   #24
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It does actually look kinda like boy scout camp, only with more tattoos, sturdier buildings and uglier uniforms.

That said, I absolutely hated boy scout camp.
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Old 06-07-2012, 12:43 AM   #25
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I was 12 when I was at boy scout camp. Most of the kids' balls hadn't dropped yet. No experimentation.
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Old 06-07-2012, 01:13 AM   #26
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No. It raises questions about culture. It's the view of the inevitability of a criminal lifestyle; the view that it is normal/typical/expected of Black men to be criminals at age 17-30, the same way that is normal/typical/expected of people to go to college, get drunk a lot, experiment with drugs, etc.

It's not economics. It's what people are taught they are supposed to be like; taught what they are supposed to emulate. It's what they follow.
Whenever I see a black boy--at the supermarket, for example--I'm sure to ask his parents if they've picked out a prison for him yet. If they haven't, I advise them to start him early with some petty shoplifting, perhaps at that very store. The really prestigious slammers are increasingly selective. I hear Marion won't even take you until you've shanked at least a couple at an institution of lower repute.
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Old 06-07-2012, 01:27 AM   #27
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Whenever I see a black boy--at the supermarket, for example--I'm sure to ask his parents if they've picked out a prison for him yet. If they haven't, I advise them to start him early with some petty shoplifting, perhaps at that very store. The really prestigious slammers are increasingly selective. I hear Marion won't even take you until you've shanked at least a couple at an institution of lower repute.


I don't know what you have been smoking lately but I am truly envious.
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Old 06-07-2012, 01:50 AM   #28
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I don't know what you have been smoking lately but I am truly envious.
I'm not really sleeping as much as I should; does that count? Other than that it's just a tiny bit of booze and I haven't posted drunk in years.
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Old 06-07-2012, 02:54 AM   #29
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What happened to people with aspergers having no sense of humor? Was that just an incorrect stereotype?

And OCS was the first time I've been in the 'wild' so to speak... assuming a major military base right outside our capital is the wild. We still slept in tents and that's more outdoors than I've experienced before.

One time we were standing in formation at night and I was shocked to see the sky filled with stars. I've seen stars in the night's sky before but not like this. The entire sky was speckled with tiny lights.
What other dumb stereotypes about people with aspergers have you come up with?
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Old 06-07-2012, 02:59 AM   #30
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Yeah, nobody ever claimed we have no sense of humor AFAIK. Some of us take things literally so we might not always get jokes others make, but in many ways we do vary significantly from Mr. Spock. Honest. Like, did you know I can have sex more than once every seven years?
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Old 06-07-2012, 03:04 AM   #31
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My brother is an Aspie and quite frankly, he's no fun at all.
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Old 06-07-2012, 03:08 AM   #32
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But he probably gets laid more than Speer.
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Old 06-07-2012, 03:08 AM   #33
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I wasn't going to go there. I just set you up to go there so I can still claim the moral high ground.

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Fortunately, I already ceded the moral high ground at the dickgirl debacle
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Old 06-07-2012, 03:15 AM   #34
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What other dumb stereotypes about people with aspergers have you come up with?
google asperger and sense of humor and you'll see tons of references to aspergers having no sense of humor, though many of those are aspergers sites saying basically what gives with the stereotype?

You (and some others here) have a problem understanding that perceptions, even false or unsubstantiated, can still be common and powerful. We've had this discussion before where you denied the existence of another common misconception and my response was identical: google it and see how many people talk about it.
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Old 06-07-2012, 03:21 AM   #35
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Is this post intentionally ironic?
Multiple psychiatrists and therapists immediately dismissed the idea (like within 10 seconds of speaking to me) that I have aspergers, despite my mother's repeated insistence to them.

I don't know what the criteria is for determining aspergers but it's clearly not: taking things literally, a lack of understanding of nuance, the compulsion to blab on about topics that interest me, inability to respond to social cues and interact meaningfully with others, inability to form close friendships, and a dislike of being touched.

Whatever I have may seem like a stereotype of aspergers but it's not
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Old 06-07-2012, 03:40 AM   #36
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If they dismiss any suggestion after only ten seconds with the patient in question, they're lousy shrinks and you should ignore them.
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Old 06-07-2012, 03:56 AM   #37
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I should also mention that I'm what they call "very high-functioning," which means I pass for normal pretty easily for short periods of time among non-psych majors. Also I catch on to certain social realities more easily--for example, I understand intuitively that it's absolutely impossible for a woman to "hypothetically" ask you if you would like to have sex with her. I hear some people have problems with that.
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